Motherhood vs. Art: There Is No Wrong Choice http://lithub.com/motherhood-vs-art-there-is-no-wrong-choice/
" In a recent interview, Shonda Rimes and Oprah herself commiserated over the challenge of having both a high-level career and family. “I have so much going on inside my head in terms of writing, there’s such a large space in my life taken up by that,” Rimes confided. “I can’t imagine it being taken up by a husband and children and writing, and everything getting its due,” she said. “I don’t believe there is room for all of it. I really don’t.” It seemed somehow a woman couldn’t—or shouldn’t—have both. A man could—he just needed a wife. “Kids change you,” I’d been told by family, friends, and teachers, over and over. “Your life changes forever. Completely.” They made it sound like a form of tiny death." ‎- JustDuckie