Finally, at the age of 45 and change, I think I'm finally realizing that Life is what you're doing now. Avoiding or putting off things rarely results in success. I was taking a short break and walking around outside and realized that if I am choosing not to do something, what am I expecting to happen instead? Meaning that taking out the trash and cleaning the kitchen are Things You Do. What am I expecting Life to suddenly become if decide not to do The Thing when it needs to be done?